Friday, July 31, 2009

Journey to Asheville


Well tomorrow is the big day. We are finally moving to Asheville. Another step of faith in this journey we have been on for almost 2 years.
Just a quick recap in case you haven't been reading my blog long or I haven't seen you in a long time.
About 2 1/2 years ago some plans we had for working with Urban Harvest Ministries fell through. The funding they thought would be there didn't come. This was hard because I had already quit my other job and was working for them full time. But the position I had and the one Stephen had were cut because of finances. So this left us confused, jobless, and praying about what God would have for us next.
During this time God started strengthening our faith about how he provides. Even if it just one step, one pay check, one verse, one word of encouragement at a time.
Stephen decided to build up his business that he had started as a part time job in school and just wait on God. He got plugged in with the Rescue Mission here in Greenville and other various things, built his business, built his marriage, and his walk with God.
He has felt a call to church plant ever since he was saved about 9 years ago but didn't know when, where, how, etc.
One day he got a call from the hospital in downtown Asheville to give an estimate to pressure wash their hospital. (It is the only time he has gotten a call from out of state to pressure wash.) When he got there they gave him the master key to look at the building and eventually he found himself on the roof. He was up there just minding his own business when he suddenly felt the nudge of the Holy Spirit. He looked around at the city around him and felt "it is here". He panicked. He tried to ignore it. He didn't even tell me for several weeks because he didn't want to go. But eventually he couldn't run anymore. So he started studying the city and learning about it and found out that he really is uniquely set up to minister to this city.
Asheville has two very different cultures that are mashed together. You have the typical Southern culture that is moralistic, somewhat christian influenced, and the mountain folk whose families have lived in that area a long time.
Then you have the "new asheville" that is called the San Francisco in the South. The scene is drugs, new age, withcraft, homosexuality -- as the negatives. The cool things about this culture are the arts, creative, music side, of it.
Stephen understands both. He grew up in a home like the old Asheville and from 18-22 he was in a lifestyle of drugs and craziness similar to the new Asheville.
Both need the gospel. This is what we hope to bring to Asheville.
So after establishing that this is where we were going he started praying about how to get there and learning more about church planting. While he pressure washes he listens to sermons and so he would listen to about 20 a week and found ministries like Acts29 that have tons of free sermons on church planting. So he would listen to these along with his regular bible teaching.
Almost 2 years ago he went to a church planting Bootcamp and learned about Great Commission Ministries. This was like the missing link to the puzzle. They could do a lot of the administrative work in the beginning, give accountability and support for fundraising, and coaching.
So he went through the long application process, and that next January he went down for week of interviews and training. The last step they wanted for him to be accepted was a supervisor. They wanted him to have someone who understood church planting since he was inexperienced in it.
God provided that in an amazing way. 6 months earlier Stephen had met a man named John Reeves. Him and his wife had planted 6 churches. He likes to start the church and move on and let others run it. They randomly met in downtown Greenville one day and Stephen and I had started visited their plant some on Sunday nights and getting to know their family. Cheryl (his wife) became a huge inspiration for me in way she helps John and the way she raises her children (they have 6). John agreed to be his supervisor and he was accepted with GCM.
Stephen decided to raise half of a salary and to keep his business in Greenville to compensate the second half. So even in this we see how good it was that he has spent these years running his business. Just when he was about to start fund raising I got pregnant. Which was a surprise because of some fertility issues I have but a huge blessing! At the same time Stephen landed a huge contract with large plant being built here in Greenville. So he decided to do this job and use the money to pay for our baby bills and wait on the fundraising.
Then about 2 weeks before the baby was born he knew he couldn't put it off anymore. He needed to start. This was so scary. The week he started was the week the stock market to its first big plunge, I was getting ready to quit work with the baby, and with him working 20 hours a week with GCM that was less money coming in from his business.
He felt God take him to 2 passages in the Word that week. The one was with David and Goliath--that God would do what seemed impossible. And the other was with Elijah being fed by ravens and a widow in the midst of the drought. That even in seemingly hard times God would take care of us.
So he started and little by little the money came in and was committed. One person at a time. One donor at a time. By Feb we were at 60% but then it was like it just stopped. We were kind of stuck. It was like this for a few months. We really wanted to be close to our support goal before we moved because Stephen will already be driving to Greenville once a week for business and he didn't want to drive here for fund raising too. But about a month and a half ago one of Stephen's dear friends was praying for us. He called Stephen and said, I feel like you should go ahead and move to keep momentum and to take that step of faith.
So we decided to take the plunge. We started looking for places. We got a mortgage but decided to rent for at least 6 months to get to know the area. We found an apartment right in downtown Asheville that was having a special rate. We thought it would be a good place to meet people.
Well as soon as we committed to go the Lord honored that. Our support jumped up almost 25% in a matter of weeks.
We are now pretty close to our goal. When we move Stephen will continue to fundraise to get that last bit of support then GCM will release him to assignment. We have people in Greenville who want to to drive up and help us when we first start gathering our core group. (It's only and hour away)
I interviewed two days ago for a preschool teacher job (just 9-12:45 two or three days a week). I can take Buddy with me and he can get free preschool. If I get it this will be a good way for me to meet people in Asheville and make a little extra money.
We have made some connections up in Asheville already as well. And Stephen meets with some pastors there and prays with them once a month. There is one pastor that is open to a church planter using his church's sanctuary. Their church is older and they have shrunk down to the chapel. He doesn't think his congregation is equipped to reach out to the "new Asheville" but he still has a heart for it. His building is right in downtown and we are hoping this may work out.
We need a lot of prayer. Stephen has already had some major spiritual warfare since he started fundraising. We have heard Asheville has around 900 new age centers. Even yesterday with us getting ready to move tomorrow Stephen has come down with a terrible virus in his eye that has left him bedridden. Please pray for him. I am not saying this is spirtual nessesarily but I have been praying hard that the Lord would heal him so he can get the things done he needs to today. He is taking medicine and lots of supplements.
Well I am sorry this is so long but my goal in this was to just give some background and information on what we are doing and hopefully you can check back from time to time and pray for us! If any of you are ever in Asheville please visit or if you know anyone in Asheville we would love their contact information. Have a great weekend!

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Playing with Elijah










Saturday, July 25, 2009

Family Picture After Dinner


The Greenville Zoo

















Babysitting Braxton







Braxton trying to play with Buddy but he is not so sure he wants to play.








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Buddy was listening intently to the dogs barking next door.
Outside while Braxton took a nap.


















I love being outside!



A few Buddy Facts

He knows his first 2 words:

MaMa - he has been saying it a long time but I think he knows what it means now. He says it when he wants me.

and

Ball - you can hold it out and say "Stephen what is this?" and he will say "Ba!"

He says DaDa but I am not sure he knows what it means yet.

He finally got his first tooth last week.

I am learning his personality and learning that he is a laid back and somewhat sensitive child. He loves being out and about with people and loves adults. But children his age or older scare him some if they are active and come up around him trying to touch his face and or just crawling or walking over him or if they are loud.

So I am going to make sure he gets more time with other children and gets in a preschool or play group in Asheville so he can get used to interacting with other children.

He is crawling and pulling up on everything but even in this I can see he is not going to be really active. He is not all over the place. He likes to stay in one place for awhile and really inspect the toy he is playing with. Right now he is standing on the outside of the exersaucer (he pulled up on the tray) and is spinning the beads around. This is kind of nice because I don't have to watch him like a hawk yet.

You know those little Gideon Bibles? I always wondered what to do with them because I would get them for free but never really used them. (I have a pocket bible that is a full Bible and is in NASB). But now I am glad I have them because he likes to play with them. He always was grabbing our Bibles so I give that one to him and said it's "his Bible". He can chew it and carry it around and it doesn't matter. But I am sure when he is older he will want to pretend he is daddy carrying his Bible around. I am not sure why he likes it now. Maybe because it is so little and it is bright green!

These are some fun facts about Buddy. We are going to try and take him to the zoo for the first time today so hopefully I will have some pictures later.

Also some friends of ours (you know who you are!) wanted to take us out to eat tonight and they are taking us to Outback! They just wanted to bless us. I was totally speechless when they told us. It will be so nice to visit with them before we move. They read my blog so I wanted to say "Thank you" on here. I am humbled by your generosity.

I hope everyone has a good weekend.

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Fun Mom Moment Part 2

Two different times last week Buddy woke up earlier than usual. I was not excited about getting up before 6am. But I got him up gave him some formula and then laid down on the couch with him. Both times he laid down on my chest (holding on to his little stuffed monkey that he loves) and snuggled with me for a long time. The first time I am not even sure he slept even though I did off and on. But the second time we both slept.

He hasn't done that since he was a real little baby. It was a sweet. It made getting up so early worth it!

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Fun mom moment

Tonight I had a fun "mom moment" where I felt like a real mom. I was cooking dinner and Buddy came crawling into the kitchen and sat there and played by my feet while I was cooking. It was one of those moments that was like something I used to imagine before I had a baby. :) Even though he has been crawling for awhile he has just recently starting getting braver and crawling longer distances. He gets so excited when he can come into another room and find me. I just love that boy.

Other than that I am super busy with packing, preparing for this move, and trying to help Stephen keep his head above water with all he has going on. I promise I will blog more about this soon. Lot's of "little" (really no answered prayer is little) prayers answered. One by one. Step by step. Our faith being built. God providing. I am just too tired right now to write a long post. But soon. Please pray for us as we prepare to move in less than 2 weeks.

Thursday, July 16, 2009

My Neighbor "Miss Jackie"

Ok for a more positive post:)

I just went over to my neighbor's house with Buddy. Her name is Miss Jackie. She is 86 years old. She has 5 children (the oldest being about 66), many grandchildren (The oldest being 46) and many great grandchildren (the oldest being around 22).

She also LOVES Jesus. She became a believer in her 40s which is a rare thing in the first place. The Lord Saved her first through a co-worker bringing her to church. Then her husband became a believer and was delivered from alcoholism. They served the Lord together for the rest of their marriage until he died a few year ago. She loved him very much.

What is so awesome about her is the deep love for Jesus that propels her through life. It is not religion to her but an intense relationship with Jesus. I have seen so many elderly people become bitter, or discouraged as age, time, and sickness, have stripped so many things away from them.

She is totally opposite. She is very involved in her church. (She goes to a very healthy, large, growing church in this area). She works in the nursing mother's room on Sundays, goes to small group, and prayer meeting every Saturday night.

She has several college girls come over to her house each week.

She helps watch her neighbors grandchildren when they need help.

She gardens at her son's house each week.

And she shares her faith with those around her. That is how I first found out she was a believer. She witnessed to me! I love it! She is a huge encouragement to me. And she reminded me once again how fast life passes. Especially the time with children at home. She had 5 and she said it flew by.

Oh Father, I pray that I will be like this wonderful sister. Lord may each year of life bring me closer to you and your people. Please bless Miss Jackie and take care of her each day as she lives by herself. May you continue to use her all the days of her life.

12The righteous man will flourish like the palm tree, He will grow like a cedar in Lebanon. 13Planted in the house of the LORD, They will flourish in the courts of our God. 14They will still yield fruit in old age; They shall be full of sap and very green, 15To declare that the LORD is upright; He is my rock, and there is no unrighteousness in Him. (Psalm 92:1-15)

Irritation of Mine

Ok I never talk about politics on my blog or facebook. And this is not nessarily about politics but it is related.

I get a lot of my news off the Internet. Like many of you, this is like my newspaper. I scan through headlines and read stories that interest me.

I do get some of my news from smaller independent blog sites, but a lot of it is from the 3 main stream media websites, CNN, MSNBC, and FOX News just because it is convenient. Now many of you reading this may think I am going to blast CNN or MSNBC for being liberal. Don't get me wrong they have a lot of liberally biast stories. Especially MSNBC.

But this is what totally urkes me. Fox News is supposed to be "conservative", and they are politically. But they have a huge section everyday on the website called "Features and Faces" which contain horrible headlines and pictures. Today there is a small picture of a topless woman, and one in a bikini with the most trashy articles.

If they want to do this, they have a right to. They are a business. But I don't like to read this website because I don't want to see this trash and I wouldn't want my son or husband browsing through it either. (I just decided to log on for a few minutes last night and I was sorry I did.) On the other hand CNN and MSNBC don't do this. Their sites are usually clean and although there may be story like this from time to time it is not an everyday thing. They also have more stories about business and and Worldwide news which I enjoy reading. Anyway I guess my point is that although many people I am close to watch and read Fox News because of their political leanings, we should not think that those leanings are ones that also translate into conservative family values. Because if we were ranking soley on conservative family values they would be #3 behind the other cable Internet news sites.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Goodbye Bottles (sniff sniff)

Hello Sippy Cups.

Well today is another milestone in the life of my son. We are throwing out the bottles. He now is comfortable drinking his formula out of a "big boy" sippy cup. (Until now he could only figure out how to drink from one that had a soft nipple like a bottle.)
This is Buddy's feeding history: I nursed exclusively for 4 months but he was so small that my doctor told me I needed to supplement. So I supplemented until he was 6 months and for the last 3 months we were only using formula.

He has taken to table food very well and with that and his formula he is a great weight now.

But this step really makes me feel like little baby is growing up. I mean when you think "Baby" you think "bottle" right?
But I have read that if they will take their milk from a sippy cup it is good to go ahead and make the switch because if you don't then they get really attached to the bottle and won't want to give it up when they are 1.

What do you think? When did you make the switch?

Friday, July 10, 2009

Evian Babies

You may think this is creepy but I think it is hilarious! Part of the reason is because my son is about the same age as these babies. I can't believe what they can do with technology today. Enjoy!

Thursday, July 9, 2009

It's Official

We are moving to Asheville on August 1st. I will post more about this soon!

On another note Baby Stephen is now 9 months old. He is pulling up on everything and definitely showing more and more personality. It seems like overnight I went from having a little baby to having an almost toddler. I know this is opening up to a whole new world of motherhood and I am glad that I am reading "Shepherding a Child's heart" right now!

One funny thing he does is that when music is playing he opens his mouth and says "ahhhhh" really loud like he is trying to sing. :)


He also wants to eat everything in site! He doesn't even have teeth yet. No matter what I give him he will scarf it down like he has been starved for days. If anyone is eating around him he cries for their food or even if I am cooking or preparing food he will whine for it. (This is something that we are starting to work on.) He would be totally happy to never have a bottle again but only eat table food. (But of course I won't let him do that.) He still eats pured food but also eats a lot with his fingers. Oh well I am happy that so far he isn't picky. Hopefully this is something that will continue.

I am hanging on to every moment of his last year of life and trying to enjoy all his "babyness".

On a final note, I went to a funeral this week and someone sang the song "In the Garden". Since my church doesn't sing hymns often I haven't heard this song in a long time. I remember my grandmother always loved it. But as I listened to the words they hit me in a powerful way. It is such a worshipful hymn.

I came home and looked up the history behind it and have been thinking about it all week. So as an encouragement to you I thought I would post the words. No matter what we are going through or the pain that people around the world are going through it is awesome that for those of us in Christ there is a "secret place" we can go to with the Lord and experience joy indescribable.


In the Garden


Verse 1
I come to the garden alone, While the dew is still on the roses; And the voice I hear, falling on my ear, The Son of God discloses.


Chorus
And He walks with me, And He talks with me, And He tells me I am His own; And the joy we share as we tarry there, None other has ever known.


Verse 2
He speaks, and the sound of His voice Is so sweet, The birds hush their singing, And the melody that He gave to me, Within my heart is ringing.


Verse 3
I'd stay in the garden with Him, Though the night around me be falling, But He bids me go; Through the voice of woe, His voice to me is calling
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Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Favorite New Pastime


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Cheerio Challenge

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Thursday, July 2, 2009

Buddy Downtown Asheville


I took this picture Saturday.

One True Media

I found this web-site about a year ago on the Internet: http://www.onetruemedia.com

I was looking for something like this because I don't have a DVD burner (my computer is old) and I wanted to make a DVD of all of the baby videos that I knew I would have.

This site if like Windows Movie Maker but maybe more user friendly. You can add videos, music, text, effects and then either post that video on the web or buy a DVD of your creation.

I have been adding Buddy's baby videos all year and putting them in order little by little. This also is a way to back them up. The DVD can only hold a hour of material. Soon I will finish this one up and order it then start working on another.

I thought I would pass this along in case others of you may like to use a site like this. The price is about $20.00 per DVD so it is definitely cheaper to make a DVD at home if you have a way to do it. But since I don't that price for me is worth it to have those memories stored and edited and ready to watch on my TV at anytime.